6.22.2006

My Metrosexual Moments

It's whale sperm dermo-care for the metro-man. No, that's not me under the facial mask. But, according to a new survey, I'm dangerously close. Wikipedia defines "metrosexual" this way:

...the trait of an urban male of any sexual orientation who has a strong aesthetic sense and spends a great amount of time and money on his appearance and lifestyle.

British journalist Mark Simpson coined the term, which has embedded itself in our cultural lexicon. According to Simpson, metrosexuality is a shift in masculinity in which there is less avoidance of femininity and the “emergence of a segment of men who have embraced customs and attitudes once deemed the province of women.” Thus we've witnessed an emerging breed of stylish, sensitive, suave fellas.

It's also spawned another term: "retrosexual" -- a backlash to the mealy male; a throwback to the grungy, beer-guzzling chauvinist of yesteryear-- and has produced a turf war of sorts. Example A: ESPN's Are You a Metrosexual? quiz. It began with a discussion about metrosexual men in sports, and quickly veered into a parody of the "new breed."

Not one for "whale sperm dermo-care" and martinis, I took the test with bated breath.

1) How many times do you look in a mirror each day?

Once - when I wake up.
Twice - morning, evening.
Three times - a little mid-day peek.
Four times - I have uncooperative hair.
At least five - get off my case.

2) Can you leave the house without putting product in your hair?

No way
Yes, I do it all the time
Uhh, is a baseball hat a product?

3) Do you moisturize daily?

No -- lotion is for girls.
Occasionally, if I have a sunburn or something.
Always -- it's a necessity!

4) Not counting sneakers, how many pairs of shoes do you own?

One
Two
Three
Four
Gimme a second ... still counting ...

5) Have you ever tweezed, waxed or trimmed your eyebrows?

No, never
A couple times, for special occasions
Yes, frequently. I firmly believe eyebrows should be two distinct entities.

6) Have you ever shaved/waxed your legs, chest or back?

Yes, I do regular maintenance
Yes, a few times
No, never

7) How much do you spend on a haircut?

My buddy does it for nothing
The barber school down the street will do it for 5 bucks
$10-$20
$20-30
$40 or more

8) Your top drawer consists mostly of ...

Good old Hanes tighty-whities
Assorted boxer shorts
Designer boxer briefs

9) What's the last book you picked up?

A re-read of an old classic
A current best seller
Whatever magazine was lying around the bathroom

10) Going shopping is ...

A top priority
A chore performed before the holidays, her birthday, etc.
An activity I despise

11) Best way to spend a Friday night?

Watching the game over a large pizza and a six pack
Dinner at T.G.I.Friday's and ninth viewing of Lord of the Rings
Catch a hot musical, then drinks at a trendy martini bar

12) How would you describe your sense of style?

Scrubby frat boy
Comfy and casual
Refined and respectable
Trend-setting hipster

So I'm metrosexual in three areas, and I'm none too happy about it. Get this: My shoes, underwear and reading habits are pure metro baby! Maybe the most disturbing, however, is my reading habits.

How does reading the classics make a guy Metro?

Oh well, I'm not giving up Dickens and Twain for retro-male status. The important thing is that I don't moisturize daily (a fact that bugs my wife), I've never shaved/waxed my legs, chest or back (and don't plan to) and pizza and a six pack is still my meal of choice. Onward, men of yore, to the rugby match and pub, where we'll compare war wounds and swill the suds. Just don't ask to see my library card.

8 comments:

Ame said...

OMW!!! Am I ever out-of-touch with what's going on out there!!!

Men getting body waxes? Caring about eyebrows?

And I'm single?!!!!

This is scary!!!!!

Ame said...

Two pythons??!!!!! Really????

Heather Smith said...

It's okay, Mike. We won't tell anybody about the books you read. But for your wife's sake, we may buy you some moisturizer! (In a manly scent of course! LOL!)

Mike Duran said...

Moisturizer makes me feel... greazy.

Janet Rubin said...

I feel so much closer to you now that I know what kind of undies you wear. Ladies, maybe once Mike is a famous author, we can write a book about him, telling all the world about his shocking metro habits.

Why is it that guys can write a post about their undies and it seems normal, but if I did that on my blog, it would seem horribly inappropriate?

Mirtika said...

It took me 24 years just to get my hubby to try hair gel. I'm still trying to convince him some spiky looks will be nice. And he wears the boxer briefs now, thanks to some purchases I made. Nice. Plus he uses American Crew products after I debated it for months on the basis of, "But it makes you smell so SEXY!!!!!!!!!!"

My man is resisting the grooming revolution of metrosexuality with a vengeance.


And I'm okay with that. Men who are a bit disheveled and not so up to date in fashion can be charming in their "cluelessness." :)

Plus, that whole waxed look is too effete for me. Blech.

Did y'all catch a couple years back the SOUTH PARK send-up of the meterosexual trend?

Hah.
Mir

siouxsiepoet said...

well i was shocked to learn my husband does shave a bit of his chest (weird, i know), but he's good in the mirror and product department, though he is a moisturizer.

what can i say?

his reading habits are neandertal.

peace.
suz.

Paula said...

Thanks for giving me a clear definition of "metrosexual". Tonight Hubby and I played Barbies with our five year old daughter and Hubby made the remark like, "do I have to be this gay Ken", and I said, "he's not gay, he's metrosexual". Hubby laughed. I found you on my good friend Ame's site.